It is Meant to Be

What do you feel when you hear: “It’s meant to be” ?

Do you believe that things happen, because they are meant to be?
How do you translate “it’s meant to be”?

When I was 14 or 15, I was visiting friends of my mother, and normally would just sit and interact with my siblings, listen to conversations, or dream off to whatever place I allowed myself to go. We didn’t have cell phones or tablets, that we could use and be distracted by, so we were just doing what was available. This time, a conversation caught my attention. I do not remember the topic of discussion that went on between a group of adults, I just remember, being drawn into the conversation, and hearing myself add to it. This was not normal, as I always was quite shy and withdrawn, if not among friends or family. I remember myself saying out loud “It is destiny. Everything happens because it is meant to be”. The response I got back from all was laughter and remarks like.. “Ok, well then I will stop working today… as it is meant to be”. Instead of feeling attacked or hurt, I felt driven, and my response was: “Is that a choice you would truly make, is that who you are? No, so that will not truly happen, as it’s not meant to be”.

I can recall the passion that I carried for this very subject. Being a person who was very shy and hardly ever spoke her mind, the fire that these words carried forward, could never be forgotten.

What is meant to be, will happen, whether you see it as a choice, an ability or inability, it is meant to be. What you think you know today, you may see differently tomorrow. What you accepted in your life as truth today can shift tomorrow. That still makes it “Meant to Be” as it happens according to how you are wired and this tells, on a different level that most can’t touch just yet, how things will enfold. What you allow yourself to see, believe, grow into and become is all meant to be. What pace that happens in, will reveal itself to our mind, in our experiences, in our perception.

What we will do in the moments of our existence will decipher the outcome of minor actions and interactions, which we may see as important actions and interactions, because it concerns ourselves. They are not important as they are moldable, exchangeable and can be missed. If we don’t do what needs to be done, others will take our place and do it for us. We are never alone on this journey. Can you see some one’s future? Yes, depending on your source, the time line, and the topic of interest.

How can you see something that can alter, depending on choice? As, even though we think our mind is a complex source, it is not for our outer worldly guidance. The way we are wired, the way we use our brain, is not complex, if you are not being limited by the power of thought that is controlled by ego.

Touching this topic makes me realize again how hard it is to word the concept that goes beyond most perception. Writing all this, I hear questions about the different topics touched, and as I do, I write down what would answer those questions, yet the answers never come in one simple way, as there is not only one way to solve or understand it. It is far more complex.

What is perceived is believed, yet what we can perceive is not All that is.

Once we allow the moment to enfold, we will allow our abilities to shine and rise beyond self-created walls that keeps us from our true potential.

Let stress, worries and outer turmoil go. Let the negative energy, that it holds, go. It will not serve you, nor help you achieve what is meant to be. It is a distraction, an excuse to not just Be. When you allow yourself to Be you can take upon you what is the right thing to do, within the power of your true essence, and will be able to create bridges and move mountains without any doubt. You can Be in the here and now, experience every second as a bliss, a joy, an opportunity to Become, just by acting in the here and now, to the best of your abilities.

What is, never could be, if you did not allow it to be in the first place.

Taking upon you what you know is best is not truly allowing what you can do best. You can do much more than you can comprehend. So just Be in the moment, just act in the moment, within your full and true capacity. Do what you can do best, adjust, breathe, be in full connection with your heart.

Realize that you can alter your perception, if you allow yourself the inner freedom to soar beyond the self-limiting fear, allowing your senses to be open, connected with your heart’s truth and with all that is.

Start with allowing silence among and within you.
Within silence, we connect to our heart’s truth. The truth that is you, the truth that is your essence, the truth that exists within silence.
Let your silence be heard, let your silence be spoken, let your truth prevail.

Within Love,